What to Do With the Last Wishes of a Deceased Person?
Sometimes there are disagreements between the families of a deceased person. Each one gives his opinion, and everything becomes less clear. This is often the case when the dead has not written down his last wishes.
In cases where the last will are mentioned, everything is different. Find out what to do with the final wishes of a deceased person in this article.
Last Will and Testament: What is it
Speaking of last wishes, these are all sorts of decisions related to your body and your estate. It means that you can define the program of your funeral before your death.
However, it should be noted that the last wishes of a deceased person are different from his or her will. Several possibilities are available for your last wishes:
- cremation
- burial
- organ donation
- donation of the body to science
You can also choose the flowers for your funeral, clothing, and burial site. The last wishes of a deceased person are essential.
They can be drawn up in the presence of several witnesses (relatives, notary, funeral advisor, lawyer) to guarantee their strict application. They must be written clearly and unambiguously. Ideally, they should be authenticated and signed by your various witnesses.
A prior discussion with your loved ones is also required. This will allow you to draw their attention to the situation and avoid misunderstandings.
What Is the Procedure for the Burial of a Deceased Person Who Has Left His or Her Last Wishes?
The best option is to entrust everything to a funeral director. The funeral director will take care of the organization of the funeral while respecting the various wishes of the deceased. The funeral director defines with the family the date of the burial/cremation, the date of the civil or religious ceremony, and the choice of the coffin.
The funeral consultant takes care of all the necessary information to be given to the family and allows them to gather near the deceased before the funeral. He prepares the funeral with the church, town hall, and cemetery.
Also, it must be said that the funeral director will take care of the preparation of the body and the flowers according to the instructions of the deceased.
Administrative Procedure
Certain formalities are mandatory after a death. These are the post-death administrative procedures. They can be carried out by a relative of the deceased or by the funeral director in charge of the funeral. As administrative steps, it is necessary to
Establish a Death Certificate
Prove that you are the heir of the deceased by some means
Sort out and keep all the documents related to the deceased
Seize the guardianship judge for minor children
Call in a bailiff for movable property
Inform the dead’s banks
Settle the estate
declaring the estate to the tax authorities
How to Choose Funeral Items?
Funeral items are not mandatory. However, they can help decorate the deceased’s tomb or according to his last wishes. The relatives or the funeral home in charge must request them from the dedicated services two days before. There is a plethora of funeral items that can be used:
-the funeral plaque (personalized);
-a stele;
-Ceramic sculptures in the form of flowers;
-statuettes;
-vases and planters.
Clothing and Accessories for the Deceased
It is mandatory to dress the deceased. The pallbearer of the funeral home is in charge of all the preparation for the dead. It is possible to dress the deceased according to his last wishes. If the deceased has expressed a desire to be dressed in a particular way, this must be respected. If not, the family will decide on the clothing and accessories.